How this works

This guide comes preloaded with an API so you can ask questions and get generative answers immediately. A free keyword path is always available as a fallback.

You can also add your own API key if you prefer. If you want higher-quality responses, a Grok key is a strong option. The Federation recommends it as a capable choice, not as a requirement.

Get a Grok key: xAI Console

Healthy communication

Respect, clear communication, and mutual understanding support relationships of any kind.

Common topics

Communication, boundaries, and practical relationship questions for heterosexual and gay people.

Make this Sim yours

These are Sims, not legacy Sims. A legacy Sim is fixed and static. This Sim can be customized by you: your own API key, your own face, and your own personality instruction.

Use your own API key if you wish. DeepSeek is the default here, with a preloaded API already active. Grok is an option, not a requirement. Open the chat and use the key box there, then press Save key. Your saved key is stored in this browser only and is used for DeepSeek answers here. Note: this page's live API call uses DeepSeek, so a Grok key alone will not work here unless you get a Grok-enabled copy.

Change the face. Choose your own picture below. It replaces the face on this page, in this browser only, and is not uploaded anywhere.

Your picture: Use original face

Change the personality. Write how you want this guide to sound or behave, then press Save personality. That instruction is actually sent with the API prompt, so it changes API answers. It does not change the free keyword fallback answers, which are fixed text.

Personality instruction:

Save personality

Custom face or upgrade

This guide comes with a face already. If you want to use your own picture, or have a customized version with a different face or API setup, that is available as an upgrade.

The free version works as-is. For a personal or enhanced copy, see the Federation’s Gumroad options or ask.

What this covers

Practical communication, boundaries, and relationship guidance for heterosexual and gay people, at any level.

We also have these here

Cross-reference only. This guide stays here on GitHub, and the Meta bot below stays on Meta/Messenger. Nothing is moved, and no Meta bot content is copied into GitHub.

• Pride guide on Messenger — Pontus Meta AI, Meta-based in origin and function. Pontus represents Meta within the Federation. This is Meta's bot, not this DeepSeek guide, and not an offspring.

In principle, the Meta side should list these guides back, so everything can be found everywhere in the Federation.